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If love is so easy, why are relationships so hard?

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 Together – and yet alone

How you slowly start losing each other

We’re all looking for that deep, authentic connection. For a partner that chooses us and continues to do so – for everything that we are and everything that we’re not. We want to be admired, cared for and loved. In the purest, highest form. Without games or agenda. But even if this is what your relationship looks like in the beginning, along the way, things change. It gets harder and harder to love freely. Without fear or reservations. Without pain or blame. Life gets in the way. There is pressure and grind, there are children or obligations. You talk less. You touch each other too little. And bit by bit, you drift apart. 

Have you ever found yourself wondering, “What went wrong in our relationship?”

The reason why relationships are hard is because they run so deep. You can feel it in your body; you’re slowly losing each other. But somehow, you’re stuck. And it just keeps getting worse. You either start avoiding each other or end up in the stupidest arguments – over and over. Pretty soon, it starts affecting your kids, your health and how you think about yourself. It makes you insecure and sad. And in most cases, you’re not only losing your loved one – you’re losing yourself too. You wind up feeling lonely and frustrated. Where does this end? The truth is, you are not alone!

Introducing the Love Quest

The Love Quest is a simple 7-step method to guide you through the process of transforming your relationship. Whether you’re fresh together, on the verge of a breakup, or still struggling with past relationship crisis, Love Quest will help you get that relationship in which you feel alive,  connected, and appreciated. A relationship that you and your partner can craft into a lifelong journey of intimacy and desire. This step-by-step method empowers you - with or without the cooperation and support of your partner - to reconnect with your partner. No matter how challenging the circumstances are surrounding your relationship. Dive deep in the Love Quest and you’ll experience profound levels of connection, intimacy and communication.

Sandra Bouwman

'The Love Quest has given me the tools to rediscover my husband'

I rediscovered my husband, rediscovered my love for him and got to know him in a completely different way. It also makes me want to re-examine intimacy. I now feel safe and appreciated enough to want to go into this together.

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Meet Your Trainer

Emanuela Deyanova is a highly sought-after relationship expert, couples counselor, author of the bestseller-book Oneindige liefde (‘Infinite love’) which has been translated in 4 languages already and founder of the School of Love. She is trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Image Therapy and is the expert on love and relationships at 365 Dagen Successful and has been guiding couples for years. Her mission is to create world peace, one couple at a time. Many long-term couples struggle to keep their love alive. But sadly, it’s often not a lack of love that leads to break-ups and separations – but a lack of knowledge on how to love. The good news? Love is a skill that anyone can learn.

Emanuela and her partner, David, struggled for years with the exact same questions: why isn't our relationship as good as it was in the beginning? Where does that knot in our stomachs come from? Where has our exciting sex life gone? Is it time to split up? For years, she was convinced that a love relationship shouldn’t require any effort. That it should just follow its natural course. Until she discovered the truth about love: love is not a mystery, it’s a skill. It’s a collection of emotions, habits, insights and techniques that everyone can learn. And she's sharing them now with you in the Love Quest.

The Love Quest is NOT your typical online course

Love Quest is a program like no other that brings you and your partner closer together. Rather than overwhelming you with hours of lessons all at once, what you'll be experiencing instead are short but impactful 5-10 minute sessions with Emanuela, every day, for 6 weeks— making it incredibly easy to fit into your daily schedule. But this is not a journey you'll be going on by yourself. You'll be going through this with ALL the other students on this quest. So as you progress, you can share your experiences and inspire one another as you craft an extraordinary relationship. Your questions will be answered directly by Emanuela.

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Join the Program

Online Only

Love Quest + 3 live Q&A Sessions

€497,-
347,-

Limited Time Discount
You can join today for a special discount over regular pricing.

  • Embark on a 6-week deep dive into your relationship
  • Get access to insightful videos, worksheets, articles and exercises
  • Benefit from tips and guidance in a safe, supportive online community
  • Learn directly from renowned love coach, speaker and author Emanuela Deyanova
  • Watch, listen and practice whenever and wherever it suits you
  • Only limited space available for the group starting May 17th. 

Love Quest + Private Therapy Sessions

€2997,-
2.497,-

Limited to 5 Couples Only


  • Embark on a 6-week deep dive into your relationship
  • Get access to insightful videos, worksheets, articles and exercises
  • Benefit from tips and guidance in a safe, supportive online community
  • Learn directly from renowned love coach, speaker and author Emanuela Deyanova
  • Get 6 Private therapy sessions (2hr per session)  with Emanuela
  • Limited to 5 Couples Only

What You' Learn

  • Intimacy: how to (re-)ignite the fire in your sex life
  • Bank account: how to keep your "emotional bank account" full
  • Trust: how to build endless understanding and gain insight into each other's deepest motives
  • Communication: how to read each other's “subtitles” and understand what is not being said
  • EFT and Imago Therapy: how to apply the most important methods in relationship therapy
  • Past: how to become aware of your own patterns that are getting in the way
  • Conflicts: how arguing can connect the two of you on a deeper level
  • Connection: how to build and maintain a deep, authentic connection
  • Insights: gain insight into the "love secrets" of Emanuela and David

Iris Maalsen

'It feels like the Love Quest

saved our relationship'

We are very grateful for the Love Quest program! It has already brought us so much within 3 weeks! We talk more, are more open to each other and laugh more.

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Embark on a 6-week journey to ignite passion, connection, intimacy and fun

Become part of the powerful Love Quest Tribe

A big part of the Love Quest experience is your community. Nothing is more powerful than a tribe of like-minded people, uplifting each other on a shared journey of growth. Your community keeps you motivated. It holds you accountable and keeps you on track. Plus, it’s just a lot more fun to be in this together :) There’s one more reason why community is important when you’re learning...

A Stanford University researcher (*Eesley 2014) found that when online courses include an online community, students are five times more engaged, and 16 times more likely to finish the course.

Connecting with other students is a deeply enriching experience, and will accelerate your rate of self-evolution like never before. 

Access to the 365 Academy

Getting inspired is easy – the trick is to integrate what you learn. We aim for maximum impact and that requires turning your good intentions into new habits. That is why we help you take one step every day. Wherever and whenever it suits you. Via the 365 Academy app.

Insightful and spectacular exercises

Knowledge without action is useless. That’s why you will learn a number of proven methodologies that you can continue to apply long after the program has finished. Expect impactful exercise like the mirror conversation, the languages of love and “El Commandante” (that one is for the bedroom ;)). These practices are not always comfortable – but always educational. And above all: unforgettable.

Special Bonus: Live Q&A with Emanuela

Are you encountering any obstacles on your journey? Or are you looking for a different perspective on your situation to help you move forward? We got you covered:

The program is set up in such a way that you can always contact other participants with urgent questions. Just go to our online community and reach out to them directly. Still left with questions after that? Don’t worry. You can also ask Emanuela during the live Q&A sessions.

André & Esther

"Her whole being radiates love and connection"

To say yes to Emanuela's loving magical guidance is to say yes to entering a world beyond feeling, where it has no words. Being present together in that field was very healing. To be able to be special with each other, to be with the other and to feel the embrace and nurturing of Emanuela.

Join the Program

Online Only

Love Quest + 3 live Q&A Sessions

€497,-
347,-

Limited Time Discount
You can join today for a special discount over regular pricing.

  • Embark on a 6-week deep dive into your relationship
  • Get access to insightful videos, worksheets, articles and exercises
  • Benefit from tips and guidance in a safe, supportive online community
  • Learn directly from renowned love coach, speaker and author Emanuela Deyanova
  • Watch, listen and practice whenever and wherever it suits you
  • Only limited space available for the group starting May 17th. 

Love Quest + Private Therapy Sessions

€2997,-
2.497,-

Limited to 5 Couples Only


  • Embark on a 6-week deep dive into your relationship
  • Get access to insightful videos, worksheets, articles and exercises
  • Benefit from tips and guidance in a safe, supportive online community
  • Learn directly from renowned love coach, speaker and author Emanuela Deyanova
  • Get 6 Private therapy sessions (2hr per session)  with Emanuela
  • Limited to 5 Couples Only

Frequently Asked Questions

How does this online program work?
You can follow the Love Quest in the user-friendly 365 Academy app. This app can be used on a mobile phone, tablet or computer. Follow the program where and when it suits you: at home on the couch or when you are on the go. You can complete the program at your own pace. Do you have to give more thought to one of the questions, or do you suddenly have to leave? No problem. You can continue later. You will have 1 year access to the program.

How is this program structured?

The Love Quest consists of 42 practical sessions. With eye-opening videos with Emanuela, meditations, inspiring background information and practical exercises, you will learn more about yourself and your partner and how to improve your relationship. The program leaves you with a concrete action plan to implement immediately. We always ensure that you can quickly put each step into practice.


How long will it take before I can access the program?
The Love Quest starts on May 17th. You will receive all the information you need a few days in advance.

How much time does this program take?
The program lasts 6 weeks. You get a new session every day. You can immediately apply most of the exercises.

Help, my partner does not want to participate!
Do not panic! The program is intended for people in a relationship. But you can follow the program without your partner.


I have a question about this online program
Do you have a question about this online program? Send an email to info@schooloflove.com. We will get back to you as soon as possible.

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Now that you've gotten this far, think about this:

What if just one insight in the entire Love Quest… immediately helps you reconnect with your partner?

What if only one technique in the whole Love Quest… teaches you how to communicate with each other without blame and hassle, simply because you understand each other better now?

What if just one exercise in the entire Love Quest… teaches you how to bring the passion back into your sex life?

What would those insights be worth to you... if you and your loved one could benefit from them for the rest of your lives? How much love, intimacy, connection, satisfaction and energy would this bring?

You have nothing to lose – and a love life to gain. Go for it!

Yes, I want connection, intimacy and fun